Do you feel your marriage like in the desert? Relationships is so dry, the atmosphere often complex and there are no more happiness. If you are looking for happiness in marriage, then know that it will not always be there.
Your happiness will only be experienced if the situation and conditions is fine, if not, then what you will experiencing is suffering. For that do not seek happiness, but find joy in your marriage. Joy will continue to flow in Whatever conditions, especially the joy that comes from God. How do I have it?
First, you need to connect with the Source of Joy
Man, your spouse and your children is not a source of true joy, but the source of true joy is God. For that we have to continue to connect with God, so that the joy of God is constantly flowing in our hearts which then flows to all of our family (Psalm 4:7).
Second, make God as your best friend
Maybe you often tell to your spouse what is the problem that you faced, or your good friend. However as humans they have limitations, or there are certain things that You can not open to them and where should you go? Jesus Christ. He's ready to be a good listener and helps us whenever and wherever.
Third, keep the family altar in any situation
When circumstances in a marriage is getting difficult, keep your communication with your spouse and keep your family's altar. This is very important, in addition to keep does not happen misunderstanding, keeping the family altar is like keeping you and your spouse to stay focused to God in crisis time.
The circumstances will always be change, but don't let your life controlled by the circumstances, keep your focus to God and change the situation and conditions with Him. believe that everything that God let happen in our lives is sure to bring in favor. So, don't give up, keep believing and keep praying. Hope is always there.
Yeahh great Pos
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