Educating Children Positively

Many examples of cases in which parents feel that educating a child with how hard would be more effective in hopes that the child will walk straight in accordance with the wishes of the parents. But in the end the kids grow as much with their parents so this conflict often occurs between parents and their child. Parents become confused how to deal with their children.

The following tips on educating children positively can do:

Teach Your  Children to Care Themselves

This can be started by giving an example to children through your habits. Take time for yourself to take care of yourself, work, and personal development. If necessary, ask your kids to be with you to "to care" together. In doing so, the child would follow the example of parents and started aware to care for himself.

Be a good listener.

It is not easy as a parent to be a good listener for his son because of frequent parental instincts will automatically giving advice or even nagging even before the child is finished speaking. Try once in a while You hold back and not revealing Your opinions or feedback. Listen to the stories of children with open heart and mind. Forget your position as parent and look into the problem through your child's point of view. And instead of your opinion, you can ask questions about the issue. The presence of the parents as a good listener without judgment will make the child feel more cared for and appreciated. These stories can also bring closer relationships with You because the child knows that he has parents that can be trusted.

Give Recognition and awards

Start from yourself by taking a few minutes to focus on success that you have achieved. Give yourself rewards, ranging from the simplest thing. Make it a habit to focus on the positive things happening in your life and your child, then give awards. Then share it with your kids. Give praise and appreciation to your kids against the positive things they do. And remember that this praise was oriented more on positive action and not achievement.

Teach the Children Responsibility

Teach children responsible through the little things such as giving the role of hygiene in the home or a simple jobs like cleaning the bedroom and organize books. It will build a sense of responsibility in the child.

When children make mistakes, invite them with you to talk privately. Avoid nagging and shouting especially in front of others. Invite your child to speak betwen him and you and give them explanation that what he was doing was wrong. Teach them to apologize when he did wrong and you should also give the example to apologize when You do wrong. Tell them that as a parent you have to educate them, but you still love and care for them sincerely.

Be Wise that Every Mistakes is part of Learning

Remember that anyone can do something wrong, including you and your kids. Making mistakes is a process of learning. From there people get lessons and be willing to fight the challenges and risks. Teach children to take lessons from their mistakes so that in the future they will not repeat the same mistakes. And share your personal experience stories that children understand that doing wrong is natural.

Take a Time and asking your Child to pray together

What other vitamins are more effective than prayer? Asking your children to pray together each night. Because of that way the child will feel peace was on your side and in his protection. He'll be closer to you and even more closer to God.