The Greatest Kids Around the World

Children are the most precious treasure in the world. Do you know who is the children of the most privileged in the world today? Well, here are 4 of the most privileged children in this world because it is getting success early on. Reported serupedia.

1. Elaina - Little Radio Broadcaster

In the age of 7 years, Elaina has been a radio broadcaster with the listener far beyond his age. Elaina many provide a solution of romance to his listeners.

2. Cleopatra Stratan: Singer Aged 3 Years With Frank 1000 Salary Per Song

Born On October 6, 2002 in Chisinau. He was recorder of history in the music industry as a singer with his album of 2006 La vârsta de Trei ani, at the age of 3 years. He noted the record of a child artist who appeared on stage with thousands of fans. He was also awarded the MTV Award the youngest artist to score a # 1 Hit.

 

3. Aelita Andre: Being a painter at Age 2 Years 

Australian-born child is two years old already showed its quality as a genius, he has a house show for abstract works. At first, Mark Jamieson, the director of Brunswick Street Gallery in Melbourne's Fitzroy.

Interested in seeing a photo of a painting of Aelita Andre, and he wants to join the group because the talent is painting. When the invitation was made, he had just realized that Aelita is a child who is 22 months old. But he still went on the show.

 

4. Akrit Jaswal: Surgeon Age 7 Years

The nickname "the smartest kid in the world" has been attached to Akrit Jaswal, a child from India. He surprised the public when at the age of 7 years doing surgery on a local girl in his place. The girl suffered burns to his hands can not be opened, and Jaswal also perform the surgery until her fingers could open as usual. Currently he is listed as the youngest doctor in the world. He was admitted to the University at the age of 11 years.

 

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Tragic Story The Winner of the Lottery

Many lottery winners when they win the lottery that is not change their life, even more suffering than before. Even though they winning millions dollars, that is not make their life better. Here some of stories they who win lottery.

Evelyn Adams

Evelyn Adams won the new jersey lottery 2 times (1985 and 1986), around 5.4 million dollars. Now the money has run out and she lived in a trailer. Many people wants her money, everyone begging at her when she her pocket full of money. Evelyn spend her money just to play jacpot machine at atlantic City. so tragic is in it?



Jeffrey Dampier 

Jeffrey Dampier won about $20 million from the Illinois lottery, he actually invested it in a gourmet popcorn store, called Kassie's Gormet Popcorn. 
Unfortunately, his sister-in-law didn't think so. Along with her boyfriend,they shot Dampier in the back of the head with a shotgun seven years after he won, and left him in the back of a van, intending to take his money. They were obviously caught, however, and convicted of murder, and now they're in jail for life.
ohh money..



Michael Carroll 

The story goes as follows: Michael Carroll, a 19-year-old British garbageman, wins about $15 million in the lottery. He begins spending innocently enough—presents for family and friends, for instance. Then, he begins spending not so innocently on things like crack cocaine, gambling, prostitutes (at one point sleeping with about four a day), and enough booze to drown the sad midday crowd at an Irish pub. Eight years later, he's broke and back to working as a garbageman. According to him, he's happier for it, but we kind of think he's just saying that because he's lost it all.

JANITE
 
Janite win prizes amounting to 18 million U.S. dollars in 1993. Janite very generous to give funds to various groups, such as the political, educational and social. But according to reports, seven years after winning the lottery prize, Janite went bankrupt. Lee also gambled a lot, so you can see how this was not a good combination. She blew about $347,000 in a year on her habit, and ended up deep in debt to the point where she filed for bankruptcy in in 2001. At that time he only had money in the bank for $ 700 and did not have cash on hand.

 

KEN

Ken, a mechanic, won the Michigan lottery prize of 1 million dollars. Then he moved to California and opened the car business with his brother. However, within 5 years, his business went bankrupt! Now he is turning to be a mechanic again. A family won the prize of 4.2 million dollars. After that they bought a big house, pay off all debts his family. Entire families living in one house following vehicle facilities, dining and more. Seven years later, the couple divorced, sold their house, and they divided the money. His wife bought a very small house. He moved with his ​​children.

 

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Youtube "Dance Harlem Shake"

Hi there, have you ever doing funny things in youtube,
today i'm gonna show you how you can make a funny things

This one maybe some of you already knew that Youtube can do "Harlem Shake Dance"

Ok let's do it:

1. First of all you can go to the youtube 
2. You can type this keyword on youtube search bar "do the harlem shake"

and wait for 10-15 seconds Then enjoy it 
Youtube Dance for you 
Lol :D

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Better you read and Watch This

Today there are so much people who smoking around 1.100 million around the world and possibly this number will getting increase day by day. Based on WHO's report  in 1999 around 250 million kids will die because of tobacco.

Smoke is very dangerous not just for they who smoke but for they which is not. With smoking you destroy your body.


Hope This video makes you understand


Sometimes we don't even understand, i meant we often say that smoking is dangerous but in fact we did that actually that is so silly. Hope understand that you are more important than you think. Do not regret later but throw it now and value yourself and your body

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Inpiring Story from Jin Kyu Robertson

Have you ever dream to get a success career. This story tells us that your dream it's the one will make or bring you to your success path of life. Let's start.

This is a real story from a women known as Jin Kyu. She is a woman from Korea, she start everything from zero. Jin Kyu Suh tasted the dark period of her life because she have no money for school despite his parents promises him for could graduated up to senior high school.

At the age of 22 years, Jin Kyu applying for a job as a housekeeper in America. He not mastered the English language in there, however and because of her inability it makes Jin Kyu start to learn English Language. When she got in New York, job which she wanted already filled by someone else.

Not long after that Jin Kyu get a job as waitress. She began learning simple phrases like 'good morning', 'enjoy your meal', 'thank you' and a variety of sentences that she needed to serve others. 10 years since that moment, Jin Kyu already become part of employee American military who worked in Germany. How she could splashed into military relates with her unhappy marriage with a man.


To reach her dreams she plans to take an education . Then she pursue it. Jin Kyu acknowledged that her career in the military is not easy. Her English is so weak, but she remained Stoic and insists on wanting to reach his dream in the education.

Someday there is an offer to send military to Japan, unfortunately Jin Kyu was rejected because of according to policy, there is too big risk to send a woman into the land who dominated male. Jin Kyu who not could accept such reason mention the name Margaret Thatcer so the decisions is changed and she was one of person who send to Japan.


Jin Kyu was able to complete her masters at Harvard when she was working in the army. And not just stop there, Jin Kyu finally signed up for the S3 lecture. After she retired from the army, the women completed their courses and obtained a doctorate. Currently, Jin Kyu written a book called Major Dream taken from the story of her life.

But a still more remarkable, her life experienced by Jin Kyu could also inherited to her daughter, Jasmin. His daughter was able to graduate from Harvard and continued her career in the US Army.

Jin Kyu's life cannot be underestimated. Career and perseverance for education and achieve big dreams she deserve got thumbs up. she is a figure of the modern woman, truly unbreakable. Jin Kyu Robertson also had a big dream that make her different, she is able to deal with every problem with a smile.

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Satan's Plan

Satan called a worldwide convention of demons. In his opening address he said, "We can't keep Christians from going to church. We can't keep them from reading their Bibles and knowing the truth. We can't even keep them from forming an intimate relationship with their Savior. Once they gain that connection with Jesus, our power over them is broken. So let them go to their churches; let them have their covered dish dinners, but steal their time, so they don't have time to develop a relationship with Jesus Christ. This is what I want you to do," said the devil: "Distract them from gaining hold of their Savior and maintaining that vital connection throughout their day!"


"How shall we do this?" his demons shouted. "Keep them busy in the nonessentials of life and invent innumerable schemes to occupy their minds," he answered. "Tempt them to spend, spend, spend, and borrow, borrow, borrow. Persuade the wives to go to work for long hours and the husbands to work 6-7 days each week, 10-12 hours a day, so they can afford their empty lifestyles. Keep them from spending time with their children. As their families fragment, soon their homes will offer no escape from the pressures of work!"


"Over-stimulate their minds so that they cannot hear that still, small voice. Entice them to play the radio or cassette player whenever they drive. To keep the TV, VCR, CDs and their PCs going constantly in their home and see to it that every store and restaurant in the world plays non-biblical music constantly. This will jam their minds and break that union with Christ. Fill the coffee tables with magazines and newspapers. Pound their minds with the news 24 hours a day. Invade their driving moments with billboards. Flood their mailboxes with junk mail, mail order catalogs, sweepstakes, and every kind of newsletter and promotional offering free products, services and false hopes."


"Give them Santa Claus to distract them from teaching their children the real meaning of Christmas. Give them an Easter bunny so they won't talk about his resurrection and power over sin and death. Even in their recreation, let them be excessive. Have them return from their recreation exhausted. Keep them too busy to go out in nature and reflect on God's creation. Send them to amusement parks, sporting events, plays, concerts, and movies instead. Keep them busy, busy, busy!"


"And when they meet for spiritual fellowship, involve them in gossip and small talk so that they leave with troubled consciences. Crowd their lives with so many good causes they have no time to seek power from Jesus. Soon they will be working in their own strength, sacrificing their health and family for the good of the cause. It will work! It will work!"


It was quite a plan! The demons went eagerly to their assignments causing Christians everywhere to get busier and more rushed, going here and there, having little time for their God or their families and friends. Having no time to tell others about the power of Jesus to change lives. I guess the question is, has the devil been successful at his scheme? You be the judge!

Does "busy" mean:
B-eing U-nder S-atan's Y-oke?


Author Unknown

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Wise Story

~Baseball Team~

Bob and the Lord stood by to observe a baseball game. The Lord's team was playing Satan's team. The Lord's team was at bat, the score was tied zero to zero, and it was the bottom of the 9th inning with two outs. They continued to watch as a batter stepped up to the plate whose name was Love. Love swung at the first pitch and hit a single, because Love never fails.

The next batter was named Faith, who also got a single because Faith works with Love. The next batter up was named Godly wisdom. Satan wound up and threw the first pitch. Godly Wisdom looked it over and let it pass: Ball one. Three more pitches and Godly Wisdom walked, because Godly wisdom never swings at what Satan throws. 

The bases were loaded. The Lord then turned to Bob and told him He was now going to bring in His star player. Up to the plate stepped Grace. Bob said "He sure doesn't look like much!" Satan's whole team relaxed when they saw Grace.

Thinking he had won the game, Satan wound up and fired his first pitch. To the shock of everyone, Grace hit the ball harder than anyone had ever seen. But Satan was not worried; his center fielder let very few get by. He went up for the ball, but it went right through his glove, hit him on the head and sent him crashing on the ground; then it continued over the fence for a home run!

The Lord's team won. The Lord then asked Bob if he knew why Love, Faith, and Godly Wisdom could get on base but could not win the game. Bob answered that he did not know why. The Lord explained, "If your love, faith and wisdom had won the game you would think you had done it by yourself. Love, faith and wisdom will get you on base,...but only My Grace can get you home. My Grace is the one thing Satan cannot steal.

-Author Unknown

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The Frog Race

There was once a bunch of tiny frogs, who arranged a running competition. The goal was to reach the top of a very high tower. A big crowd gathered around the tower to see the race and cheer on the contestants.

The race began…

No one in the crowd really believed that the tiny frogs would reach the top of the tower. They shouted, “Oh, way too difficult!!! They will NEVER make it to the top” and “Not a chance. The tower is too high”.

The tiny frogs began collapsing, one by one except for those who, in a fresh tempo, were climbing higher and higher….

The crowd continued to yell, “It’s too difficult! No one will make it!”

More tiny frogs got tired and gave up… But one continued higher and higher. This one wouldn’t give up! And he reached the top.

Everyone wanted to know how this one frog managed such a great feat.

His secret? This little frog was deaf!!

The wisdom of this story is:

Ignore the pessimism of others. It can take your dreams from you. Stay positive.

-Author Unknown

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Good Morning

Good Morning, this is GOD I will be handling ALL your problems today.

Please remember ... I WILL NOT NEED YOUR HELP!!!

If life happens to deliver a situation to you that you cannot handle, do not attempt to resolve it. Kindly put it in the SFGTD Box (something for God to do). It will be addressed in My time, not yours. Once the matter is placed into the box, do not hold onto it.

Holding on or removal will delay the resolution of your problem. If it is a situation that you think you are capable of handling, please consult me in prayer to be sure that it is the proper resolution.

If you find yourself stuck in traffic, don't despair. There are people in this world for whom driving is an unheard of privilege.

Should you have a bad day at work, think of the man who has been out of work for years.

Should you despair over a relationship gone bad, think of the person who has never known what it's like to love and be loved in return.

Should you grieve the passing of another weekend, think of the woman in dire straits, working twelve hours a day, seven days a week to feed her children.

Should your car break down, leaving you miles away from assistance, think of the paraplegic who would love the opportunity to take that walk.

Should you notice a new gray hair in the mirror, think of the cancer patient in chemo who wishes she had hair to examine.

Should you find yourself at a loss and pondering what is life all about, asking what is my purpose? Be thankful! There are those who didn't live long enough to get the opportunity.

Should you find yourself the victim of other people's bitterness, ignorance, smallness or insecurities, remember ... things could be worse. You could be them!!!

Because I do not sleep nor do I slumber, there is no need for you to lose any sleep. Rest, my child.

If you need to contact me, I am only a prayer away.

Love Eternally, The Lord your God

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Learn What is Wedding from This Movies

Marriage is a sacred moment that happens once in a lifetime. Especially for all of you who are single, the understanding of marriage must be known so that you are ready and not be disappointed when you walking in the marriage. Well, Magforwomen released some of films that we can use for the lesson in seeing the process of a wedding.


1. Bride Wars 

This movie is about love and friendship. Not only plays the emotions of the warmth of friendship, but also a lot of lessons to be learned from the story of two female friends who want to share in the same marriage. 


2. The Wedding Date 

Debra Messing, a major character in this movie, act as a woman who wants to make her ex-husband jealous while attending the wedding of his brother-in-law. He hired the men being her couple in the party where her ex-husband is attending . Many valuable stories that we can learned, one of them about how important respect to our spouse. 


3. Runaway Bride 

The main character, Julia Roberts, who plays as woman that phobia to the marriage. In this movie, she was always run shortly before the wedding is begin. However, one actor, Richard Gere, succeed making her heart is melt because the power of love.


4. Father of the Bride 

Story about how a father's heart actually felt pain when releasing his daughter when she married. Behind happiness of her daughter's marriage, he has a tremendous sadness when the memory raising in His mind struggle in raising his daughter. 


5. 27 Dresses 
If you are single, this is very interesting movie to enjoy. Tells the story of a young woman who has as many as 27 former boyfriend. But it is a whip for her when she was a bridesmaid at her sister's wedding ceremony. 


6. Wedding Crasher 

The Plot of this film tells about two divorce mediators who facing a conflicts from couples who wants to get divorced. 

7. The wedding Planner 

What happens when Your wedding planner loves your bridegroom? And in the end the bridgegroom turn to you wedding planner? It must be taking so much intrigue along this movie.

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Three Important Things To Experiencing Joy Marriage

Do you feel your marriage like in the desert? Relationships is so dry, the atmosphere often complex and there are no more happiness. If you are looking for happiness in marriage, then know that it will not always be there. 

Your happiness will only be experienced if the situation and conditions is fine, if not, then what you will experiencing is suffering. For that do not seek happiness, but find joy in your marriage. Joy will continue to flow in Whatever conditions, especially the joy that comes from God. How do I have it? 

First, you need to connect with the Source of Joy 

Man, your spouse and your children is not a source of true joy, but the source of true joy is God. For that we have to continue to connect with God, so that the joy of God is constantly flowing in our hearts which then flows to all of our family (Psalm 4:7). 

Second, make God as your best friend

Maybe you often tell to your spouse what is the problem that you faced, or your good friend. However as humans they have limitations, or  there are certain things that You can not open to them and where should you go? Jesus Christ. He's ready to be a good listener and helps us whenever and wherever.

Third, keep the family altar in any situation

When circumstances in a marriage is getting difficult, keep your communication with your spouse and keep your family's altar. This is very important, in addition to keep does not happen misunderstanding, keeping the family altar is like keeping you and your spouse to stay focused to God in crisis time. 

The circumstances will always be change, but don't let your life controlled by the circumstances, keep your focus to God and change the situation and conditions with Him. believe that everything that God let happen in our lives is sure to bring in favor. So, don't give up, keep believing and keep praying. Hope is always there.

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Mistakes Parents Frequently Do

There are certain things that usually parents did not realized that is not a good thing. Parents can make mistakes in behave when educating children, but still do. The habit is hard to stop. So, what are the actions that parents sometimes actually hinder quality education for children? This is the acts according to Dr. Phil, psychologist who often become speaker in Oprah's talkshow:

Excessive Emotion

Often parents tell children to not cry, do not quickly berserk when his desire is not fulfilled, or scold the child when the child screamed. However, high pitch tone that we spend time being scolded child, making the child do the same. Please note, children are more responsive if told gently but firmly.

Not Obeying Rules

We as parents set some rules, but break them our own. When the kids see this, they will certainly follow the same behavior. Each of what we do to is being an example for our children. For example, we scold the child when the child's litter, but our own doing the same. Of course the children will not be obey parents because they saw that their parents breaking their own rules.


Treating Children like Adults

Giving children freedom of speech and allows the child to decide themselves with the risk who should bear themselves, relationship between parents and children is not a democracy relationship. Therefore, we do not make the mistake to equalize treatment and the rules like we doing to child, especially young children who do not understand anything.

Giving Them Rewards

It is not the best way to give them reward, according to dr. Phil. According to him, the most important is determining the achievement of what is indeed the most appropriate things given to children that motivated them. If we giving them reward continually, he will grow up into prosecution kids.

Awards and Penalties

Beware of praise that comes from the mouth. Praise is indeed worthy and fit to build children's confidence but never too often praised, praise will feel stale  In addition, if children do wrong, do not be punished with a scary. If the penalties were seen less fair, we will lose the chance to give "lessons" right on the child.

Discipline Slack

Don't let discipline be loosened. For example, we do not allow children to eat sweets at all, but another time when child asking we allowed. The other is the case if the candy eating is restricted. Very important to show the consistency of a rule in front of the child. This will make the children understand that every action has a consequence.

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To be a successful Parent

The nature and character of a person are two things that are formed in childhood. Therefore, the role of parents and family are the most important thing in a person's growth.

As parents, it is a duty and responsibility to educate their children. For that, on this occasion, team will help you with some tips as a guide to successful parenting.

# 1 Consistent

A child has a great curiosity. He would feel like to know new things that are still unknown to him, so he will ask many questions to you. For that, as a parent you are required to give consistent answers to children's questions.

# 2 Determination of Limits

Delimitation can be regulatory or physical protection of the child, so the child can feel safe and protected by their parents until they are adults. 

# 3 Avoid Forcing Children to Become Like a Parent

Understand that children will grow up just like their parents make the parents treat their children according to what they wanted when they were kids.

Children are not small versions of their parents. They grow at different generations and the environment that will greatly affect their properties. Often parents expect too big so then disappointed because their results are not in accordance with their shadows.

# 4 Provide Positive Encouragement in Children

As parents, it is proper if you know the positive and negative on your child. To help its development, parents should help children develop hand psotof in themselves and also give positive feedback to them.

# 5 Provide A Penalty If Children Make Mistakes

Errors made ​​by children can be addressed with the advice-nasehan the building. But if he continues to repeat it, you have to give him the punishment that is positive, such as reducing hours of play. It makes young children And to think twice to make the same mistake.

# 6 Avoid Gaps Between Both Parents

If the child wants something that is forbidden by his mother, but is allowed by his father, the child will then get closer to the father because he felt his father would give what she wants. Both parents should agree in teaching and educating children rather created role in the stability of the family.

# 7 Parent Behavior They Should Keep

A child will tend to follow the behavior of their parents. If as a parent you write a single lie, cheat, swearing, stealing, or even make lifestyle choices that are not healthy, anal would tend to think that they are allowed to do such things because their parents do the same.

Being a good parent is not easy, but it does not mean being a successful parent is impossible. Hopefully these tips can help you.

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Jonathan Edwards Family Hero Vs Max Jukes Enemy Of The State

The role of a father is very important in developing the tenacity and perseverance in children. The character became a foundation for children in the future to face the pressure of life and being successful man in this life. The role of the father in educating it's very vital. In fact it's already taught in the Bible.

Professor Laura Padilla-Walker and Randal Day School of Family Life at Brigham Young University reached that conclusion after following the development of the 325 families for several years. By the time, the nature of persisten it comes from their fathers. This positive attitude impacting their on school.

In the study they were asked whether the child is able to persevere at a task, completing a project, as well as create goal and finish it. Child's ability to persevere and be persistent critical foundation for children to develop, advance, and able to deal with the stress and pressures of life. In the study also concluded that persistent and persevering nature can be taught.

 Below are examples of comparisons that are significant enough to be a contemplation for every us longs for children and grandchildren become successful and useful for himself, his family, others even for the nation.

In the 19th century there were two Americans who have a story and fate of life in relation to the upside.

1) Max Jukes his life choose to be an atheist and against God. He had 560 offspring; 300 people died as a beggar, 150 people into criminals, seven of whom are murderers, 100 famous people as drunks and more than half of his women are prostitutes.

 Even more miserable, the descendants of Max Jukes have been detrimental to the U.s. Government at that time with a dollar value of approximately $ 1,025, 000, 000 

2) Otherwise, Jonathan Edwards a Christian who loves God and faithful. Living in the same year with the Jukes, but Jonathan Edwards diligently studying and working for the glory of God's name. In addition he fluent in many languages and he persistently preaching the Gospel.

Jonathan Edwards is married to a Godly young woman. From 1394 his descendants as follow: 295 people graduating, including 30 people as a Rector, 3 people selected as American senators, 3 people as Governor of the State, 30 people became judges, 100 people become lawyers, 100 people to be missionaries, preachers and famous writers, 80 people working in government offices, 75 people become army, 65 people become professors, 3 people became mayor in major cities,  1 person to be Vice President of the United States.

No one of Jonathan Edwards's descendant that causing detriment to the state or the U.S. government. This is a true story to learn, isn't? Still can not believe how great the role of the father for child? 

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Educating Children Positively

Many examples of cases in which parents feel that educating a child with how hard would be more effective in hopes that the child will walk straight in accordance with the wishes of the parents. But in the end the kids grow as much with their parents so this conflict often occurs between parents and their child. Parents become confused how to deal with their children.

The following tips on educating children positively can do:

Teach Your  Children to Care Themselves

This can be started by giving an example to children through your habits. Take time for yourself to take care of yourself, work, and personal development. If necessary, ask your kids to be with you to "to care" together. In doing so, the child would follow the example of parents and started aware to care for himself.

Be a good listener.

It is not easy as a parent to be a good listener for his son because of frequent parental instincts will automatically giving advice or even nagging even before the child is finished speaking. Try once in a while You hold back and not revealing Your opinions or feedback. Listen to the stories of children with open heart and mind. Forget your position as parent and look into the problem through your child's point of view. And instead of your opinion, you can ask questions about the issue. The presence of the parents as a good listener without judgment will make the child feel more cared for and appreciated. These stories can also bring closer relationships with You because the child knows that he has parents that can be trusted.

Give Recognition and awards

Start from yourself by taking a few minutes to focus on success that you have achieved. Give yourself rewards, ranging from the simplest thing. Make it a habit to focus on the positive things happening in your life and your child, then give awards. Then share it with your kids. Give praise and appreciation to your kids against the positive things they do. And remember that this praise was oriented more on positive action and not achievement.

Teach the Children Responsibility

Teach children responsible through the little things such as giving the role of hygiene in the home or a simple jobs like cleaning the bedroom and organize books. It will build a sense of responsibility in the child.

When children make mistakes, invite them with you to talk privately. Avoid nagging and shouting especially in front of others. Invite your child to speak betwen him and you and give them explanation that what he was doing was wrong. Teach them to apologize when he did wrong and you should also give the example to apologize when You do wrong. Tell them that as a parent you have to educate them, but you still love and care for them sincerely.

Be Wise that Every Mistakes is part of Learning

Remember that anyone can do something wrong, including you and your kids. Making mistakes is a process of learning. From there people get lessons and be willing to fight the challenges and risks. Teach children to take lessons from their mistakes so that in the future they will not repeat the same mistakes. And share your personal experience stories that children understand that doing wrong is natural.

Take a Time and asking your Child to pray together

What other vitamins are more effective than prayer? Asking your children to pray together each night. Because of that way the child will feel peace was on your side and in his protection. He'll be closer to you and even more closer to God.

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Parenting Sons Without Regrets: The Discipline of Discipline

Godly discipline should not be viewed as a competition for power. Help your son understand the roles of God that he has assigned to each one of you in the parent-child relationship. Instill in him the idea that God has given you 18 years, or while he is living in your home, to teach him how to obey God and say no to sinful desires. And let your son know that his role is to learn how to follow the Lord and resist temptation so he is prepared to stand strong when he is a grown man.

What about the times when your son disobeys you and breaks the rules? Don’t be surprised. Everyone sins, and needs to know what to do when that happens. When your son does wrong, view his offense as an opportunity to teach him how to make things right in his relation¬ship with the Lord and with you, or whomever he has sinned against.

Work to build a relationship of trust with your son. Empathize with him as he battles with temptation. Telling your son you identify with his struggle, because you wrestle with sin as well, will help him believe you really do understand his trials. When you make yourself vulnerable in this way, he will come to seek your counsel.

If you try to seem as though you are never tempted, your pretense could serve to alienate your son from you. He may think you cannot relate to his struggles and therefore couldn’t possibly know how to help him. Or worse, he will see through your hypocrisy and be turned off by Christianity altogether.

By living an honest, transparent life in front of your son, you can teach him how to know victory over temptation and sin. While it is not wise to tell him about every sinful desire with which you struggle, you can help your son realize how closely you must walk to the Lord to live an obedient life.

Here are some practical ways to live with sincerity before your son:

• When you lose your temper, ask your son to forgive you. You could say something like, “Ephesians 4:32 says we are to be kind to one another. Please forgive me for speaking harshly to you. I have asked God to forgive me for disobeying His Word, and to help me respond to you with kindness.”
• If you have gossiped in your son’s presence, tell him the Lord has convicted you about your sin. Say you have asked for God to forgive you and help you to keep your tongue from evil (1 Peter 3:10). Ask your son to forgive you as well.
• When your son has wronged you, forgive him. Explain how God gives you the ability to forgive and not hold a grudge.

Did you notice how many times the word forgive was used in the above list? Forgiveness should be a charac¬teristic of God’s people. By asking for your son’s forgiveness and readily extending forgiveness to him, you will build his respect for you and establish an environment which allows your son to better understand what God is like. You will make God attractive, and compel your son to desire Christ in his life.

The Lord Is My Banner 

As your son learns how to live the victorious Christian life, he needs to believe you are in his corner, praying he will be strong in the face of temptation. When your son struggles with sin, remind him of the story in which Joshua fought against the enemy while Moses held up the rod of God (Exodus 17:8-16). As long as Moses kept his arms reached toward heaven, Joshua had the strength he needed for victory.

From Moses’ and Joshua’s example you can learn some specific ways to encourage your son when he struggles against temptation:

1. Paint a word picture for your son of you on the hill, praying for his victory, while he, like Joshua, fights as a valiant warrior of God (see Ephesians 6:12-13). Teach your son that the Lord made Joshua victorious because he was faithful and because of Moses’ prayer, and you are confident God can do the same for him.

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Appreciate Your Kids

In a Korea drama entitled You're Beautiful, there is a scene where a mother stated that she regretted to have given birth his son, "because of your birth I lost the most important thing in my life. Sure you hate him because I left you for him. but because of you, I lost him ... " -You're Beautiful Ep. 8. While Korea's other plays, Love Rain, a mother claimed that her son's birth has been a source of destruction of his household. "If I'm not pregnant of you, this unhappy marriage will never start, " – Love the Rain EP. 9.

We often heard that this negative sentence come out of from mouth of parents towards their children. Because the difficult conditions of parents and the various problems they faced, sometimes they feel stress because of their children and making their situation more difficult.

This Stress sometimes made parents reacting negatively to their sons.

Dear parents, the children also need your appreciation. When you hold your child's face with a negative attitude, then your child will grow up to be someone who is full of negative thoughts in him. This negative impacts can arise in children because of the negative treatment from their parents and in this time team will help you to understand what the impact when the parents face their children with a negative attitude.

Rejection / Rejection from parents

Older people who already feel pressured with existing problems, often we heard curse come out to his son or even more denying their children. When children felt rejected, they will grow up with less confident and he seeking attention from another environment  and with variety of ways: lowering their values, and find a way to become the center of attention, this is just some of little impact of rejection from their parents, even more some of children starting consuming drugs or being drunkard. 

Strict Moral

Many Parents want that their children having a stright and right vision. They do not want their children repeating the same mistakes again and again, this condition sometimes making any parents applying strict moral values. Many cases that parents when saw their children making mistakes either in study or in any fields, directly made some of rules that restrict children's freedom and this is will not make them feels free when they fall down at something. This case will result in children being often feel guilty and sinful when making mistakes.

Disciplinary too Hard

The application of the rules by a parent when parents discipline their child not infrequently leads to harsh attitude of parents on children. This can make the child grow up to be the personal often blame yourself and need a boost of others to complete the task. The child will also grow up with a sense of resentment and anger in his heart.

Applying high Ambition to children

"Parents always want the best for his son" it is a phrase often parents spoken. But not infrequently also the sentence is simply a justification of their ambitions towards their children. Children who grew up with their parents's ambitions will be causing children having idealistic personal which is not realistic. He would often frustrated and feel guilty because of his failure.

Divorce (Broken Home/Divorce)

Parents who decide to quit fighting for their family and take the road of divorce often make the child grow up to be someone who often feel stressed and anxious. He will feel inferior and oscillate between loyalty to the father or mother. In addition, the child will not find a good model that they could see as an example, and it could cause children become brittle.

Being a parent is not an easy task. Many issues may often make you feel stress. But when the Lord has bestowed the gift of a child to you, it means He believes that you can get through it. Value yourself and the children, although often You become stress because of them. Is it not already an instinct of any parents to love their children unconditionally?

Keep up the spirit!

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Choose the right course for your child

Every parent would want the best for their children. Guaranteed health care, higher education, and a variety of capabilities that may once have possessed had no parents in his youth. This often makes parents then enroll their children to the wide range of courses so that at a young age, children already have a very busy schedule.

Well, the schedule is so crowded can be a bad influence for your child's personality. Therefore, as a parent you have to be smart to choose which course would be useful for children, and which ones will just exhausted. Team will help you with how to select courses for the beloved children. 

# 1 just ask First

Before you enroll Your sons and daughters to a variety of courses, it's good if you ask them first, what they want to learn. Often the parents to determine the course of their children based on what the desires of parents and not the child, it causes the child to feel forced to follow a different course, until finally they get lazy and strike off.  When the children get the courses they want, they will not feel forced and more eager to follow the course.

# 2 Watch the Report

Pay attention to your child's report cards and don't forget to pay attention to your son's subject. If you find a value that is not good in certain subjects, it's good for you to offer them a course. Give them understanding that the course would help him to better understand the subject which they think it is difficult.

# 3 Hobbies

From their hobbies you can also determine the appropriate courses. With children enrolled in the course to be a hobby, you have to help them develop their interests and creativity of your children. 

# 4 Match the Course with Personality

Matching the course for the child's personality can help your child practice their personality. For example, if your child is timid, you could ask them to join a vocal course or martial arts that can teach them to be brave.


# 5 Beware the signs of Fatigue

Fully schedule of the course could cause a child to be exhausted. If your child's culture started to change (from humour being irritable, or sullen for no reason), bored,it means they are starting to fatigue. When this happens, immediately take note again of their courses and reduce some courses where not needed.

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Various Myths in Educating Children

Myths that circulate in the community could have been right in the medicine, but many are less precise. Indonesia especially, education to children is sometimes influenced by the myth that has lasted for generations. Thus, myths that circulate in the community however wrong in educating children or dealing with it. This is the review:

1. Pregnancy is Making Stress

While in the womb, your baby can feel and remember things experienced by the mother.Precisely a busy mom can make a child in the womb develop its sociality. "Pregnancy is the most appropriate time to establish and develop a child's social structure," said Shihab Najelaa, education practitioners, as released kompas.com

2.  Babies Need Mother Attention
This myth is completely wrong. This myth makes many parents worry on the health and development of their baby if more people are involved or interact with their babies. "When babies also need friends other than her mother," said Najelaa. It could be their friends her age, and certainly interactions with her father.

3. Brain Stimulation Is The Best Way For Children

Parents often think that the child's brain needs to be stimulated in order to be clever, but everything must go hand in hand. Not only brain stimulation / cognitive, children also need to be stimulated to social skills and emotional. Cognitive abilities of children will grow with increasing capabilities and socialization of their emotions.

4. The Recipients Object is Newborn Babies

Many people say, that babies must receive all our attention. But actually this is not right because actually parents who should know better the child. "Parents should be people who can understand the desire of his children, even though they could not deliver it in a way that is easy to understand," he said.

5. Children's Educational Toys Can Stimulate Better

"Basically, play with any kind of game is the best way to learn," he explained. So, the toy can be useful when used, can not we just give the child and then the child learns something. Therefore, accompanied child while playing, so that their brains receive new knowledge from his parents when completing the game.

Myths can indeed true it could be wrong too. However, the most appropriate education is based on the Bible, educate for fear of the Lord.

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